June 20, 2025

Quick Decisions - Slow Decisions

I read and hear a lot about long it took people to make a decision about if they want to or can transition and how they fought with it. Here I talk about my timeline.

July 7, 2024

How They Became Her

Here is a story I often tell about how I changed my pronouns, so I thought it’s of interest for some people and I don’t have to tell it anew so often.Here is a story I often tell about how I changed my pronouns, so I thought it’s of interest for a wider audience. Also I don’t have to tell it anew so often, I can just point to this blog entry.

February 8, 2024

Hey guys!

This is going to be a bit of a rant and will absolutely use some strong language. The Atlantic in 2018 had a piece on the question, if the term “guys” when used to address…

September 8, 2023

The problem with 'passing'

This is a post I wanted to write for a very long time. So here we go. The concept of passing and trying to suceed with it is fairly widespread thing in the trans community.

July 2, 2023

When something shakes your world ...

Sometimes things happen, that shake up your world. Or destroy a part you thought was safe of harm. Most of the time no one did it on purpose, but still it hits you out of…

April 21, 2023

Are clothes gendered?

This is a topic that comes up often within the transgender community and sometimes is especially important to freshly hatched eggs (people who just came out). So I would like to explain my approach to…

April 10, 2023

Male privilege

I think we need to talk about male privilege as a trans femme person. This is not an easy topic for most amab (assigned male at birth) people.

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